I cant stand these freaking creatures. It is truly overwhelming. I have a question. Her baby. Mirror his image back to him and the narcissist will always retreat. Continue with Recommended Cookies. To the point he believes everything she says about us. If it's . And if they send you a nasty email and you mirror them and send one back? A clear boundary and a possibility for dissapproval from his family. Social media can be sin - MSN OMG. There are several great books on that. He is an alcoholic & coke abuser & was in midst of month long binge after I discovered hed cheated on me & I had contacted the other woman. I am so sorry to read of your terrible journey. My husband and I are dealing with his narcissistic brother and he is PURE EVIL. I studied psychodynamic counselling but am ot a clinsellor in my work with children my degree covered child development so when l heard this story about me as a toddler it rang alarms bells. Yes, its a blessing and a curse. she just didnt care to show it. Narcissistic injury is any threat (real or imagined, no matter how slight) to the narcissists grandiose self-perception as perfect or omnipotent. I know of a outing where she parked in disabled parking with out a California disabled placard none of the people she was transporting had mobility problems she just did think she could get away with it and I do not think she reported to the company that she works for. I do believe people can change once a spiritual experience enlightens them..however..its about acknowledgement and choice. If he does, it may be very short lived. Thats when youll see them trying to make amends so that you wont leave. What are you hoping to accomplish? 'I know the truth about you' or 'I see right through you' Narcissists cannot stand to have their masks unceremoniously removed and their true selves called out. I havent wanted to split up our family and have our children go through divorce, two homes, all the crap that comes with that, etc. Temporary or notIll take the small wins. People can think the world of their looks all they want narcs are made in how they treat other and expect to be treated. Its as simple as that. I feel others pain as well . You have to watch out because they can go behind your back and even do things like undermine your professional life. They might emotionally detach, become aggressive, devalue you, attempt to blame you, or even verbally or physically abuse you. Ive enough self-hatred and loathing of self to not mind her leaving me be, so she can deal with her own issues. When they are confronted, the narcissist's faade starts to crumble. I dont try to persuade or criticize as she cant handle either approach. But once he entered the devaluing and discarding phase, this tactic only served to have him physically attack me and almost take my life. This reaction is one in which the narcissist will do something like give you the silent treatment, but dont be fooled. He says hes so miserable he wants a divorce but he never proceeds with it. For the sake of my boys. You wait and mirror what they give you I SWEAR it always helps me, and its not an eye for and eye type deal, its more of a can you see what youre doing to me? no matter what, if my husband walked out the house, no amount of texting or callinh could make him leave. I also have some denial still that he is as bad as many outlined in my reading. His ex wife was threatening to affect my personal life, and i told him that he needs to draw boundaries else i am out. They tear down everything they once lifted up.
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